Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, said, “Do not make your homes into graves (in which prayer is forbidden); and do not make my grave into a place of celebration; and send blessings upon me, for indeed your blessings will reach me wherever you are.”
[Sunan Abu Dawud, Book of Rites, Number 2044, Hasan]
عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم لاَ
تَجْعَلُوا بُيُوتَكُمْ قُبُورًا وَلاَ تَجْعَلُوا قَبْرِي عِيدًا
وَصَلُّوا عَلَىَّ فَإِنَّ صَلاَتَكُمْ تَبْلُغُنِي حَيْثُ كُنْتُمْ
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